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Why Your Thanksgiving Actually Needs Games (Even If You Think It Doesn’t)
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Look, I get it.
You’re thinking games are cheesy, or only for kids, or that your family is “too cool” for organized fun.
But here’s what I’ve learned after hosting Thanksgiving for the past eight years: people desperately want something to do besides sit and digest.
They want to laugh. They want to connect. They just need someone (that’s you) to give them permission and a framework.
Games aren’t just filler activities—they’re memory makers that get your tech-obsessed teenagers actually talking to Grandma and give your introverted cousin a structured way to join the fun without feeling put on the spot.
Quick Active Games That’ll Get Everyone Moving (And Laughing)
Turkey Waddle Relay
This one’s pure chaos in the best possible way.
I discovered it last year when my niece suggested we “do something fun” and honestly, watching grown adults waddle across my living room with a balloon between their knees remains one of my favorite memories.
Here’s how it works:
- Split everyone into teams of 4-5 people
- Give each team member a balloon to squeeze between their knees
- Set up a start line and turnaround point about 15-20 feet apart
- First person waddles to the turnaround point and back
- Pass the balloon to the next teammate (no hands allowed)
- First team to finish wins
Pro tip: Have some extra party balloons on hand because trust me, some will pop, and you’ll need backup.
The key is choosing someone to demonstrate first so people know it’s okay to look ridiculous.
Shake Your Tail Feathers
I stumbled onto this game three years ago and it’s become a non-negotiable tradition in my house.
You need tissue boxes (empty ones work fine), colorful craft feathers, and some stretchy string or pantyhose.
Setup takes five minutes:
- Cut small slits in the bottom of empty tissue boxes
- Fill each box with 8-10 craft feathers
- Attach the boxes to players’ waists using string or pantyhose
- Set a timer for 60 seconds
- Players shake, jump, dance, and wiggle to get all feathers out
- First person to empty their box wins
My 72-year-old father-in-law won this last year with dance moves I didn’t know he had, and we still talk about it.
The beauty of this game is that it’s physical without being too demanding, and watching people’s competitive spirits emerge is genuinely entertaining.
Cranberry Spoon Race
Remember those egg-and-spoon races from childhood? Same concept, Thanksgiving edition.
What you need:
- Regular tablespoons (one per player)
- Fresh cranberries (they’re the perfect size and if they drop, no mess)
- A clear path from start to finish
How to play:
- Create teams or play individually
- Each player balances a cranberry on their spoon
- Race from one point to another without dropping it
- If the cranberry falls, return to start
- First person (or team) across the finish line wins
I’ve learned that having a set of inexpensive tablespoons specifically for games saves you from worrying about your good silverware ending up in the yard.
Brain Games That Don’t Feel Like Homework
Thanksgiving Trivia That’s Actually Interesting
Forget boring questions about what year the Pilgrims landed.
The trivia that gets people engaged is the stuff they think they know but aren’t quite sure about.
Categories that actually spark conversation:
- Pop culture Thanksgiving: Which TV show has featured Thanksgiving episodes every season since 1994? (Friends)
- Food facts: How many cranberries are in one pound? (About 440)
- Presidential pardons: Which president was the first to officially pardon a turkey? (George H.W. Bush in 1989)
- Black Friday origins: What year did Black Friday shopping start? (1950s, but became popular in the 1980s)
I organize this as a team game rather than individuals competing because it gets people collaborating and debating answers together.
My format:
- Divide guests into teams of 3-4
- Ask 20 questions across 4 categories
- Teams write down answers between questions
- Award points for correct answers
- Winning team gets first choice of leftovers (this matters more than you’d think)
Two Truths and a Turkey Tale
This is my twist on the classic Two Truths and a Lie, and it’s become my secret weapon for getting relatives who barely know each other to actually connect.
Here’s the game:
- Each person shares three Thanksgiving-related stories from their life
- Two stories are true, one is completely made up
- Everyone else votes on which story is the lie
- Person reveals the truth
Examples from my last Thanksgiving:
My cousin: “I once ate an entire pumpkin pie by myself, I accidentally set a turkey on fire, I met my husband at a Thanksgiving dinner.” (The pie story was the lie—she only ate half)
My uncle: “I worked at a turkey farm in college, I’ve never actually liked stuffing, I won Thanksgiving trivia at a bar three years running.” (He loves stuffing—he was testing us)
The magic happens when people share these stories because suddenly Aunt Margaret isn’t just your dad’s sister, she’s someone with hilarious experiences and unexpected history.











